I live at the intersection of my AAPI (Korean) identity and my faith. The more complex these layers become, the more red tapes I feel in my queer identity. Most times these red tapes feel binding and unfair. Why do I have to take an extra moment to process longer than others? How come they don't ask "Is it because I'm Asian?" AND "Do they know I'm queer?"? But once I stopped resisting, and allo...